Unodoli wakho wesondo uya kuba liqabane lakho rhoqo

Ngaba ubusoloko ucinga ngayo ngalo lonke ixesha, ngaba kufuneka ufumane umntu wokukukhapha kwiqabane lakho elidala ebomini bakho? Xa ufika ekhaya uvela emsebenzini, uya kulinda ngomonde ekhaya kwaye akaze akhalaze. Xa ufuna ukusondela kuwe, ukhetha ukumsebenzisa njengesiqhelo sakho, kwaye akayi kukugxeka. Ukuba ufuna ukuhamba ngeshishini kwaye ungagoduki iintsuku ezimbalwa, akayi kukucaphukela. Ukuba ufuna ukuphumla kwaye ube nabanye abafazi, akayi kuba nangxaki okanye abe nomona. Kwaye akasayi kukwandisa uxinezeleko lwakho, okanye akunike nomthwalo.

Ngaphezu koko, unokuyonwabela isigqi sobomi bakho kunye nobomi besondo, ujabulele naziphi na iindlela zakho ezizithandayo, unokubeka iminwe emlonyeni wakhe, okanye unokumbamba isifuba ukugqiba ukulala kwakho ngokwesondo, njengokuba Isenzo owawusenza kunye nabasetyhini. Akasoze athi hayi kuwe, noba kunjani, nokuba kunzima kangakanani, uzimisele ukwenza unothanda, soze akwale. Nangona ungafuni ukuzisa isethi, ukhathazeke ngokukhulelwa, unokuqiniseka ukuba akayi kuba nesibeleko sentombazana yangempela, akayi kukhulelwa, kwaye akayi kugula. Thenga nje iiwigi, iimpahla ezintle okanye ezihexayo kuye, ezi zanele, kukho ukucocwa rhoqo, njl.

Uya kusindisa kakhulu ngaphezu kwentombazana yangempela, kwaye akayi kukukhathaza yonke imihla, luhlobo luni lweengubo ezibukeka kakuhle, ziphi iimpahla ezifanelekileyo; akukho mntu ukucela ukuba ucele izipho, uthenge izinto zokuthambisa, iibhegi, iimpahla, izihlangu, njl.

Yonke indoda ifuna ukuba nomfazi ofezekileyo. Ufuna ukuba nento yokumamela angakhalazi ngawe. Noko ke, ubomi bokwenene buya kuba nothotho lweengxaki ezimbi.

Xa uthenga oonodoli bezesondo kuthi, ufumana okungaphezulu nje koonodoli bexabiso eliphakathi, kwaye umgangatho ufana noonodoli bezesondo ezibizayo. Kutheni ungakhethi oonodoli bethu besini? Sisengaba neendleko ezininzi kuwe. Sineendawo zokugcina iimpahla eMelika naseNetherlands. Nokuba ulilizwe na, akunyanzelekanga ukuba ube nexhala malunga nokuhanjiswa. Siza kuphakamisa ubunzima kuwe nganye nganye. Unexhala malunga nolwazi lwakho lomntu. Unokuqiniseka ukuba asiyi kutyhila iinkcukacha zakho. Sinikela ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kulwazi lwakho, ngoko ke ulwazi lwakho aluyi kuboniswa kwiphakheji. Ngoko nceda uqiniseke ukuba uthenge.