Unodoli Wokwenene Wothando Lubuyisela Ulonwabo Lwakho

Umsebenzi omninzi usenokuba sesinye sezizathu zokuba wonke umntu abe nexhala noxinezeleko namhlanje. Yintoni enokwenziwa ukuze koyiswe le meko?

Ukwabelana ngesondo yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokoyisa ukudakumba. Iyandithoba indenze ndizive ndikhululekile. Amathoyizi okwabelana ngesondo luluvo olungcono lokwenza ubomi bakho buzaliswe lulonwabo kunye nolonwabo.

Zisa ukuzonwabisa ngokwesondo
Indoda ayifuni ukusebenzisa izandla zayo okanye izinto zokudlala ngokuzonwabisa ngokwesondo. Akakwazi ukufumana iqabane elibhinqileyo elakhe. Naso isizathu sokuba akhethe ezi ezinye iindlela. Okukhona indoda izonwabisa ngonodoli wothando ofana nebhinqa lokwenene, kokukhona iya kumonwabela. Esi sesinye sezizathu eziphambili zokuba amadoda athande ukusebenzisa unodoli wesondo ofikelelekayo abatshakazi ngokuzonwabisa kwabo ngokwesondo.

Thenga ngoku

Zininzi iingxaki zesondo amadoda ajongene nazo kwaye ukusebenzisa iithoyi zokwabelana ngesondo ezithile zingakwazi ukubanceda. Ukuphulula amalungu esini kunye nezinye iithoyi zokwabelana ngesondo kunokukwenza uzive ngakumbi ngenxa yoko, kodwa aba nodoli bakunika imvakalelo engcono yezesondo.

Buyisa ulonwabo
Abanye abathandi boonodoli besini esinye bathenga oonodoli bothando bokwenyani kuba abanalo mathamsanqa ebomini babo. Baye balahlekelwa ngabantu ababalulekileyo ebomini babo, abanalo ithamsanqa eluthandweni, kwaye abanelisekanga ngobudlelwane babo. Kule meko, oonodoli bothando banokunceda abantu baphinde bafumane ulonwabo, umnqweno wesini kunye nothando lobomi, kunye noonodoli bothando olunobuhlobo banokunceda ukuqinisa le toni. Ngunodoli othandana nomntu. Unako ukuhleka, ukudlala, kunye nokumdlalisa ebomini bakho.

Uthando lwam lulapha

Ukufika kwam kuye nonodoli wokwenyani mva nje, ebengumntu olusizi kakhulu,Imeko yam itshintshe kakhulu kulo nyaka uphelileyo. Asinto ikhethekileyo kuthi ukuhleka, ukudlala nokuhlekisa. Ndicinga ukuba kufuneka sisebenzise unodoli wothando ukwenza ezi zinto zibe ngcono.

Ezi onodoli zesondo zenza ubomi bakho bube mnandi kwaye bandise iminqweno yesini. oonodoli bokwenene bothando zezona zokudlala zesini ezikhethwayo phakathi kwabantu abadala.